Stephen Van Basten
Minister bullies during counselling and afte

We met Stephen for two of our three pre marital counselling sessions. During the second session, I disagreed with Stephen about something he said. He said I should accept it when my husband to be calls me stupid, because sometimes I am. I disagreed, because my husband would be much kinder than to simple call me 'stupid', Stephen misunderstood this to mean that I refuse to acknowledge parts of myself and started bullying me to say I'm stupid, without letting me explain myself, bringing me to tears. We let him go after that session, thanking him for his time.

Since we let him go, he has sent my husband and I two emails, carrying on insulting me, calling me egotistical and vengeful and insulting our relationship and trying to prove that he was right. This really isn't what I expect from a minister of all things, since he should know what I'm really like as a person.

If you want someone who will take the time to understand you, instead of driving his own agenda, this man isn't for you.

Company: Stephen Van Basten
Country: South Africa
City: Johannesburg

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